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Apache Marriage Blessing (Author unknown)
Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be the shelter for each other.  Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be the warmth for the other.  Now you are two persons, but there is only one life before. Go now to your dwelling place to enter into the days of your life together. And may your days be good and long upon the earth.
Treat yourselves and each other with respect, and remind yourselves often of what brought you together. Give the highest priority to the tenderness, gentleness, and kindness that your connection deserves. When frustration, difficulty, and fear assail your relationship - as they threaten all relationships at one time or another - remember to focus on what is right between you, not only the part which seems wrong.  In this way, you can ride out the storms when clouds hide the face of the sun in your lives - remembering that even if you lose sight of it for a moment, the sun is still there.  And if each of you takes responsibility for the quality of your life together, it will be marked by abundance and delight.

Blessing
May God bless you with hope enough to keep the dawn in your love, and fear enough to keep you holding hands in the dark. Unity enough to keep your roots entwined, and separation enough to keep you reaching out for each other.  Harmony enough to keep romance in your song, and discord enough to keep you tuning your love.  Amen.

Blessing For A Marriage - James Dillet Freeman
May your marriage bring you all the exquisite excitements a marriage should bring, and may life grant you also patience, tolerance, and understanding. May you always need one another - not so much to fill your emptiness as to help you know your fullness. A mountain needs a valley to be complete; the valley does not make the mountain less, but more; and the valley is more a valley because it has a mountain towering over it. So let it be with you and you. May you need one another, but not out of weakness. May you want one another, but not out of lack. May you entice one another, but not compel one another. May you succeed in all important ways with one another, and not fail in the little graces. May you look for things to praise, often say, "I love you!" and take no notice of small faults. If you have quarrels that push you apart, may both of you hope to have good sense enough to take the first step back. May you enter into the mystery which is the awareness of one another's presence - no more physical than spiritual, warm and near when you are side by side, and warm and near when you are in separate rooms or even distant cities. May you have happiness, and may you find it making one another happy. May you have love, and may you find it loving one another!

Irish Blessing (Traditional)
May the road rise to meet you,  May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,  The rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,  May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
May green be the grass you walk on,  May blue be the skies above you,  May pure be the joys that surround you,  May true be the hearts that love you, May God be with you and bless you;
May you see your children's children.  May you be poor in misfortune, Rich in blessings,
May you know nothing but happiness from this day forward.


The Lord Bless You And Keep You
May The Lord bless you and keep you both.  May The Lord make His face to shine upon you and be gracious upon you.  May The Lord lift His countenance upon you and give you peace, happiness, and joy, at this moment, throughout your married life, and forevermore.  Amen.

This Day
May this day shine eternally in your lives.  May it add brilliance to every achievement  and cast a divine light over any misfortune.  May you care for each other in all sadness.  May you  give cheer to each other.  May you give vitality to each other in all undertakings.  May all that is virtuous, beautiful and honest, remain with you always.

Trinity Blessing
May God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit, bless, preserve, and keep you; may His favor be upon you; and fill you with every spiritual blessing and grace, that you may so live together in this life, that in the world to come you may have life everlasting.  Amen.